World PUA Summit 2007 in Hollywood - The Forum Gets an Award! August 27, 2007
Heya Guys, I have mentioned this a bit but thought I'd give ya'll a bit of a breakdown. I haven't been posting much over the last few weeks as I'm currently in the U.S of A!
Woo hoo!
I was invited to come out here and give a talk on some ideas I have about game at the world PUA Summit. Plus, with my girl being in Dallas I thought I'd kill two birds with one stone. They held the first PUA awards and our forum got the award for the largest community in the world!
How awesome is that? With all the discussions and arguments, we are the most active and largest in the world!
We need to make a conscious choice to improve: August 26, 2007
I've hit the game with a vengeance. I hope you enjoy! Why do we have a problem with forming relationships with others? No matter how much you may try to tell yourself otherwise, we are here on this planet for one reason: to breed and survive.
There may be other spiritual, political or even minor family reasons, however none of these would be possible if we didn't replicate. It is no coincidence that two of the main four industries on the Internet include the porn industry and dating sites. Social networking sites making up one of the other two.
This is our nature and the core of our very being.
Vegas and Dallas: October 18, 2007
Heya guys! I'm off to Vegas and then Dallas to do some talks on game.
Anyone got any cool ideas of where to go when I'm there? I've been to Dallas but haven't been to Vegas before and have no idea what’s cool.
AFC AdamLondon
Un-Secret: October 16, 2007
I was teaching a student today and something clicked. Something big. We were talking about opening sets and I suggested going into HMV to talk to girls about the DVDs they were buying just to get practice talking. He then said something which I've heard many times before.
"I'm not interested in the DVDs they're looking at though"
Then it hit me. I am.
The difference between me and this guy was that I am genuinely interested in other people. The DVDs they buy, the clothes they want, making fun of them, making them laugh.
The Problem with Seeing Matrix: October 23, 2007, 03:52:28 PM
Can you spot IOI's?
Do you know how to escalate and convert almost every day 2 into a Lay?
Do you consider getting numbers the norm?
If so, you took the red pill and can see the matrix.
One of my good wings pointed something out to me recently and I can't believe how right he was.
Congratulations, you're in the matrix! Unfortunately we aren't all the Neo's we want to be.
There is a massive fucking issue with the Matrix. Instead of Neo, we're all Syler. You see when we see the matrix, we realise....We didn't fucking want it.
The Metagame: August 18, 2007
For those of you who have been in the game for a while now, you will probably have developed your own style of play. Whether you are following one of the more mainstream methods or have developed your own sense of game, you typically have a sense of sameness to our approach. For example, some PUAs favour a more direct style. Others prefer to use some form of dance game, whereas others may still use routines, or cocky funny type spur of the moment lines.Re: Wise words from AMOG Scott: August 19, 2007
Girl turns up for day 2 and she is 30 minutes late. AMOG Scott: You're dumped HB: But there was a train delay! AMOG Scott: You’re still dumped. It doesn't matter how hot you think you are, leave earlier.Re: Social Proof Help Required - What to Read? November 18, 2007
The Mere Exposure Effect – This is the idea that merely sharing one or two warm interactions with someone will make them perceive you in a favourable light. More importantly, imagine walking around a room where you have shared these favourable experiences with a number of people in the venue.
As you walk heads will be turning, people will be smiling at you as you walk around, others will be noticing it. Your propinquity will be increasing tenfold with every person you speak to as the mere exposure effect travels around the room.
Suddenly you will find yourself in a situation where absolutely everyone in the room is favourable towards you. There won't be anyone you can't speak to and, if done correctly, a whole bunch of people will be wondering exactly who you are. This can happen in absolutely any location; from a train or bus to a top celebrity night club in the best part of town.
LR AFC AdamLondon using the framework: September 06, 2007, 05:07:08 PM
Hey guys. So, as promised, here's the LR I've been using as my own framework for a while now. It’s easier (for me at least) if I can visualise what's going on. I'm at Entourage. It's a one-off party and I'm alone with ten girls. Horrid situation eh?
Then a 2 set arrive, they are friends of Jim Stark. He's called the brunette, so she's out of the picture.
I pretty much vibe with the whole group, playing around and having fun. I'm building pre-selection and higher value. These qualities stack towards my qualities of attraction plus my cool, funky new hair and dress sense. The more of these qualities I have the more IOIs I receive. It's stupidly obvious really.
I\'m a bad man - leaving them better than you found them: September 24, 2007
Hey guys, As you know, it's better to leave people in a better state than when you found them. Easier said than done right? I always quote my favourite theorist, Mr. Peter Parker. "With great power comes great responsibility"
How can we leave girls feeling better about themselves if we use them for sex? Well it all comes down to a question of telling the truth. You aren't using someone if they know the score from the beginning. It may come as a shock to many of you, however; GIRLS LIKE SEX.
Scary, but true. They just don't want to get lied to.