Keeping the ball rolling

Things are going better than you ever imagined. Not only are you comfortable approaching beautiful women and talking to them, you are finding all your social interactions are easier and more enjoyable. You're becoming one of those social people you always half admired and half hated. You are connecting with people in a way you didn't know was possible. When you get invited to a social event, instead of dreading it you look forward to it. One more chance to practice your amazing new skills. So now what?

Let's stay focused and keep improving. I'll assume at this point you've met at least one woman that you really clicked with and have plans to get together with her. The old you would have been calling her every second to make sure the plan is still on. The new you realizes that even if the plan falls apart, that's ok, because you are meeting interesting women all the time.

You've gone from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset, and it shows in your confidence.

Still, it would be nice if you followed through on your plans and got together. So lets look at some tips for keeping the ball rolling. At this point, you're going to continue everything you've learned till now, but there are some special situations we need to address.

Talking on the phone

You have plans to get together, and you have her number. The day before your next meeting, you call her up. There are two possibilities, either she answers or you have to leave a message. If you leave a message, you could say something like, "Hi (her name), this is (your name), I'm looking forward to getting together tomorrow at (wherever you're going to meet). I'll see you there." That's it. If she needs to cancel she's got your number on caller ID, but don't mention that. You don't want to give her the idea you want her to cancel If she answers the phone, great. Don't expect to be back in the vibe immediately. You might have to open all over again, but it will be easier this time since you've already built up rapport. Don't talk too long, but try to end on a high, like right after she laughs at something funny you said. Stay relaxed and just chitchat, then say you're looking forward to seeing her tomorrow.

Like I said, this is much easier than the original approach. You already know a little bit about her, and can think of things to talk about more easily. Stay calm and confident and the phone call will go fine. If you already have concrete plans, you can skip this step. But if that means you'll be even more panicky the next day waiting for her to arrive, then make the call.



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