Overview of the Zen of meeting women

The Zen of meeting women is going to be broken down into the following steps. We will discuss where to go to meet women, how to approach them, what to say, dealing with nervousness, how to keep the conversation flowing, and building attraction through touch and the right words. We'll talk about "night game" and take a detour to the virtual world of the internet. After that, we'll discuss sex and long-term relationships. Then you get your Zen of meeting women medallion, to wear proudly wherever you go. Well, feel free to make the medallion yourself, but I'd keep it hidden. What you actually get is the ability to walk up to a woman you've never met before, and connect with her very quickly.

Remember, with great power comes great responsibility. You are going to be responsible with this stuff, right? Review the precepts, then get back here and we'll see how this process is going to unfold.

Building and growing

Each of these steps is going to be broken down further.

We'll also revisit some of these ideas from time to time as we move along. If you haven't figured this out yet, I'd like to mention that we are building something amazing here. This is a process through which your skills grow, and that only happens if you keep everything happening all together, adding new skills as we go, continuing to practice the old skills throughout the process. All of this will eventually become very natural, but it's going to take practice. It's also going to take persistence.

This is a learning process, and as we learn we can sometimes make mistakes. A mistake is a learning opportunity, not a failure. You learn, revise, and try again. Each time you're a little better, a little more confident, and everything will come together a little easier. If negative stuff comes up from your past, it's coming up for a reason. So you can learn from it, and then let it go. If positive stuff comes up from your past, it's to remind you that you can succeed. It's all good, and it's all part of the process. Just keep building and growing. Remember, the only failure is not trying. If you try, you will learn and grow. It's a natural process.

Focus on success

So that's it for the overview, but before we dive in I have another exercise. You can put this one off till later if you're anxious to get started, but please do it at some point. I want you to think about all the successes you've had in your relationships.

These relationships can be familial, romantic, business, or friendships.

The point is to bring up the positive feelings associated with those relationships.

You need to realize deep inside that you are a good person, and you deserve to have successful and positive relationships with people. You have something unique to offer. And that makes you attractive. Anytime you're dealing with approach anxiety or having trouble with any step in the process, revisit these memories and feelings. The mind is a powerful thing, and you can harness that power to help you achieve your goals. Or you can wallow in self-pity. The choice truly is yours.

So try focusing on success and see how that makes you feel. Grab on to that feeling and get ready, you're going to be encountering it a lot more in the future.

Now let's get started!