What are your goals?
Ok, you want to meet women. Why? What's the objective? A friend, girlfriend, someone to have sex with, someone to go see a movie with, someone to show your comic book collection to, someone to marry?
Think this over and dig down. What is it that you hope to achieve? Once you decide what you want, the next step is to ask why you want that. What will it give you?
Why is that important to you? These might seem like silly questions, but if you really ask them deeply and take the time to answer them, everything I'm going to teach you about how to meet women will make more sense. You'll know why you're doing this. You'll know what your motivation is. And this will keep you from stopping halfway through the process. If you keep your eyes on the prize, you'll have an easier time getting it.
That doesn't mean, by the way, that you attach to your goal and obsess over it. Rather, it gives you a direction to travel in. With each step you move closer to your goal, but each step itself is a part of the journey and should be appreciated. Live your life now, not in some imagined future.
What do you want?
So let's break this down. What is your objective? If you really follow through with the Zen of meeting women, you are going to meet a lot of women. A lot. You'll have lots of conversations, get lots of phone numbers and email addresses, and have the opportunity to continue from there. But that is not an end in itself.
Some of these women might become friends, some will become more than just friends. How many girlfriends do you really want or need? Remember, while you want abundance to chase away the scarcity mindset, you don't want every hour of every day devoted to hanging out with women. A little moderation might be advisable. Do you want one girlfriend? More than one?
How about one main one, with a group of prospects waiting in the wings? As long as you're honest with everyone about what your relationship is, it's really up to you to decide. Not ready for marriage? That's fine.
Looking for a wife? That's fine. It's all up to you. The important thing is you keep the goal in mind and let that goal guide your actions. If you've met the woman of your dreams and have been dating her for months and months, keeping twenty other girlfriends hanging on might not be such a good idea. Decide what you want, and do what feels right to you. Just keep moving toward your goal.