LR AFC AdamLondon using the framework: September 06, 2007, 05:07:08 PM
AFC AdamLondon: Well I can't be bothered to deal with people’s crap. There are too many people that lie and talk rubbish and I'm not down with that. If I like a girl I tell her she is someone I fancy, that she looks hot, I like her and may want to have a few good meals and some great sex but that doesn't mean relationship. I mean, why would anyone want to do that?
Why get into a relationship with someone you have only just met?
HBTarget: I know what you mean.
By being overly sexual I'm breaking the comfortable friend vibe we are having. I could probably have done it by picking on her or telling her we're in a fight, but I prefer sexual.
Then with rapport being broken I move on to attraction and qualification.
AFC AdamLondon: I hate crap sex too. Do you like crap sex? (Qualifier)
HBTarget: No way.
AFC AdamLondon: Great sex is so much better isn't it?
HBtarget: Yeah, definitely.
So I broke rapport and she seems to be building it with me now... OK, what's next? I could continue to qualify just to make sure. If it goes wrong I can always revert to comfort and try again... however, I'm in my framework so why not follow it to the letter?
Sexual escalation.
AFC AdamLondon: You know, like when you really tease someone and trace a line up their leg with your tongue in between their legs while pinning them down and rubbing their back... There is something so great about the way the female body reacts to having her erogenous zones touched.
HBTarget: Yes.
AFC AdamLondon: (Leans in to her ear) Especially when you really tease someone (kiss her neck, leans out and looks into her eyes)
HBTarget: OMG yes... Wow, I'm so horny.
I lean back let things calm down. I don't know why really. I could have gone for the k-close then. But still, it doesn't matter.
She says she needs the toilet and I let her go. She comes back.
Her body language has changed.
Her ASD is running high and she is looking to back away.
I laugh...it's back to the framework. I start with comfort again.
AFC AdamLondon: You're cute, you know that?
HBTarget: Why?