What are your goals?

One more thing I should toss in here. It can be helpful to ask yourself not only what you want and why you want it, but also, how will you know when you get it. Sometimes this is obvious. If what you want is to be married, then when you're standing up there taking your vows, it will be quite clear that you achieved your goal. But if what you want is a little more loosey goosey, like "I want a loving relationship with someone I respect and am attracted to," that's a little tougher. So ask yourself, how will I know when I've achieved my goal. What will that look like, sound like, feel like.

Although we don't want to obsess with achieving any one specific goal, it's important to recognize when you're making progress toward a goal and when you've achieved a goal. If you achieve a goal, it's a good time to celebrate, and to set a new goal, so that you're always growing, living, and learning.

So you know what you want and why you want it. You know what it will be like when you get it. You've started exercising and meditating. You've done all the assignments so far, and you're starting to notice the way people communicate things about themselves nonverbally. You notice your own nonverbal communication, and you are working to improve from the inside out and the outside in.

You have also become aware of those times you are acting out of a scarcity mindset rather than an abundance mind set. You are letting go of attachment, letting yourself feel what it's like to not obsess over this and that. It's all starting to make a little bit of sense, somehow.

Now it's time to get the roadmap for the rest of the process, then fill our tank and go. Don't worry, we're still taking baby steps every bit of the way.

Nothing up ahead is any more difficult than what we've already done. It's just that at a certain point you're going to realize the baby grew up and is driving a lean, mean, attraction machine. Do every assignment, continue with your daily meditation, and you will get there.