The Metagame: August 18, 2007

You can then sit with them and watch his behaviour with the girls, maybe even using your knowledge of game to explain what is going on. They are likely to be completely fascinated with the whole process of attraction, especially if you tell them when he is about to get blown out or eject before he does.

Using knowledge of game to talk to girls is something a lot of people would completely avoid for fear of appearing weird or giving the game away. However, most girls spend a lot of time reading about attraction and relationships in magazines. It's likely to be one of their favourite topics and something you are likely to have a lot of knowledge about. By telling them you have a healthy interest in social behaviour and read up on it in your spare time, you will have more than enough justification to speak to them about attraction. Also if someone opens them while you are in set, you can have an in joke with the girls as to their behaviour. Again, you can use the Metagame to alter the chances of the other guy.

Essentially the Metagame is fluid. It is used to adapt to every situation presented to you, utilising the information you have at your disposal and looking at the bigger picture to help achieve your goal. In fact, with solid Metagame, you should find yourself flourishing in male-rich environments as the only guy that stands out, even if they are all PUAs. While 20 guys will be approaching with opinion openers, you'll be approaching asking why people are going around asking for everyone else's opinion.

If used correctly you should be able to ensure that you can tailor your Metagame to deal with a variety of situations where normal game would struggle and help you stand out in a crowd of naturals and PUA's.