Keeping the ball rolling

Things are going better than you ever imagined. Not only are you comfortable approaching beautiful women and talking to them, you are finding all your social interactions are easier and more enjoyable. You’re becoming one of those social people you always half admired and half hated. You are connecting with people in a way you didn’t know was possible. When you get invited to a social event, instead of dreading it you look forward to it. One more chance to practice your amazing new skills. So now what?

Let’s stay focused and keep improving. I’ll assume at this point you’ve met at least one woman that you really clicked with and have plans to get together with her. The old you would have been calling her every second to make sure the plan is still on. The new you realizes that even if the plan falls apart, that’s ok, because you are meeting interesting women all the time.

You’ve gone from a scarcity mindset to an abundance mindset, and it shows in your confidence.

Still, it would be nice if you followed through on your plans and got together. So lets look at some tips for keeping the ball rolling. At this point, you’re going to continue everything you’ve learned till now, but there are some special situations we need to address. Read the rest of this entry »

 

The Problem with Seeing Matrix

Can you spot IOI’s?

Do you know how to escalate and convert almost every day 2 into a Lay?

Do you consider getting numbers the norm?

If so, you took the red pill and can see the matrix.

One of my good wings pointed something out to me recently and I can’t believe how right he was. Read the rest of this entry »

 

The Metagame

For those of you who have been in the game for a while now, you will probably have developed your own style of play.

Whether you are following one of the more mainstream methods or have developed your own sense of game, you typically have a sense of sameness to our approach.

For example, some PUAs favour a more direct style. Others prefer to use some form of dance game, whereas others may still use routines, or cocky funny type spur of the moment lines.

Whatever your style, there is one thing that does apply to many PUAs, especially those in areas populated with a strong community. Sometimes you can’t avoid sarging in the same venue as other PUA’s.

You may have a different style to the other PUAs in the area, but the fact is you are competing with other PUAs. Now I understand that some people are fortunate enough to be in areas where there are few PUAs so this wouldn’t really apply to them. However, having said this, almost every area will still have naturals, which can sometimes be as bad as their professional PUA counterparts.

The Metagame is something that was first used in mathematics as a descriptor for set interaction that governs subset interaction in certain cases. The term was then taken and passed through military and political actions to describe operations or events that were outside the bounds of a normal situation. I suppose it could be described in layman’s terms as thinking outside the box. It’s applications are much more specific than that.

A good example of Metagaming could be one found in politics where a law was passed to placate a specific media sensation. Read the rest of this entry »

 

We need to make a conscious choice to improve

I’ve hit the game with a vengeance. I hope you enjoy! Why do we have a problem with forming relationships with others? No matter how much you may try to tell yourself otherwise, we are here on this planet for one reason: to breed and survive.

There may be other spiritual, political or even minor family reasons, however none of these would be possible if we didn’t replicate. It is no coincidence that two of the main four industries on the Internet include the porn industry and dating sites. Social networking sites making up one of the other two.

This is our nature and the core of our very being.

You would think that we would be pretty adept at the one thing we were designed to perform. Unfortunately, this is not always the case. So many of us are actually incredibly unhappy with our marital status or current relationships. One of the main reasons is that we have no idea how we become attracted to others or why we end up in relationships. They are things that just happen. Read the rest of this entry »

 

Zen and the art of making love

For all you guys that flipped to this section first, get back to chapter one. You have to earn admittance to this chapter. It’s easy to sit and think about sex, but that time will be better spent if you’re already seeing a woman that’s attracted to you.

Ok, those guys are gone, now we can talk.

We’re not going to get into explicit detailed instructions here. I’m guessing you understand the basic mechanics behind sex. Rather, we’re going to sketch out some broader ideas that will improve whatever it is you’re doing with that wonderful woman.

Focus on her

Remember how your conversational skills improved when you started listening to her instead of the babbling voice in your own head? Same principal applies here. If you focus on her enjoyment, it will be a better experience for both of you. Read the rest of this entry »

 
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