Relationships: making them last

You’ve done all the assignments. You’ve met a ton of great women. Things are going great. Your friends all consider you a master pickup artist and have started asking you for advice on how to meet women. Life is good. And then, out of the corner of your eye, you see her. Everything slows down. The music sounds different. There are sparkles in the air. She notices you and your eyes lock. A little baby with wings floats by and shoots an arrow in your heart. And you think two things. First, why doesn’t that baby have a diaper, and second, I think I’m in love.

Ok, it doesn’t really happen like that, but don’t tell anyone in Hollywood. What really happens is you start seeing more of someone, and find out you really feel great when you’re with her. She’s got that something special that no one else had. So after a while you’re seeing more of each other. And more and more.

After a few months you’re calling her your girlfriend. Read the rest of this entry »

 

Re: Social Proof Help Required – What to Read? November

The Mere Exposure Effect – This is the idea that merely sharing one or two warm interactions with someone will make them perceive you in a favourable light. More importantly, imagine walking around a room where you have shared these favourable experiences with a number of people in the venue.

As you walk heads will be turning, people will be smiling at you as you walk around, others will be noticing it. Your propinquity will be increasing tenfold with every person you speak to as the mere exposure effect travels around the room.

Suddenly you will find yourself in a situation where absolutely everyone in the room is favourable towards you. There won’t be anyone you can’t speak to and, if done correctly, a whole bunch of people will be wondering exactly who you are. This can happen in absolutely any location; from a train or bus to a top celebrity night club in the best part of town.

There are a number of different techniques that will help you with this. Read the rest of this entry »

 

Can The Negativity!

“The last of the human freedoms is to choose one’s attitudes.”

Victor Frankl

Can you name one redeeming feature of a negative attitude? Nor can I, so avoid it…like your brother’s wife!

A positive attitude creates more sexual energy in all relationships whereas a negative attitude can destroy the sex drive fast and completely! Read the rest of this entry »

 

Advice #1: Be selective

Be selective (but not too selective) with membership to maintain the club’s exclusiveness. Create the atmosphere that joining your club should be a privilege. Have set meetings to advance your cause. Print up business cards and get active in the community.

The fact is, by creating your own exclusive club and declaring yourself the Prez, you just leapfrogged to the top of your organization without breaking a sweat. This is the ultimate in ease if you’re looking to establish authority quickly! A good book to read that bodes well with this ‘Leap Frog Theory’ subject is Winning Through Intimidation by Robert J. Ringer (1974). Read the rest of this entry »

 

Men in leadership positions, no matter how minute, attract babes!

How can you, in your current position in life, acquire a leadership position to help a cause and attract babes?

Let’s look at a few ways… ?? Many corporations and companies have ‘safety’ committees or ‘social’ committees or something similar. In addition, manufacturing facilities have ‘continuous improvement’ committees and ‘corrective action’ committees.

Join one or all of these committees and work towards leadership position so as to establish authority. Do a good job and advance the committees cause but realize that ‘getting laid’ is only a super by- product of leadership. It cannot be the reason to become a leader or, chances are, you will fail. Read the rest of this entry »

 
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