Posted on December 20th, 2009 by acmereptile
Heya Guys, I wrote this up too late to use on anything I’ve been working on and wasn’t sure what to do with it. I just found it on my computer and thought I’d post it up. Are you afraid of approaching someone you like through a fear of rejection? Do you get that horrible feeling in your stomach and begin to formulate a hundred reasons why they wouldn’t want to talk to you?
This is a lot more common than you would believe. There are a number of different products out there that will supposedly “fix” the fear of approaching strangers especially ones you are attracted to. However, few of them take the time to understand why we have that fear in the first place. If you understand why you have this fear or anxiety you can take steps to counter it. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted on November 20th, 2009 by acmereptile
Learn from this what you can about state building. The following has been written following a break up with a girl I thought was particularly special. It’s a long distance relationship but the distance has grown too much for us and a few days ago I started noticing her being a little more distant.
My posts are typically humble, calm, and something I hope you can all learn from. I write this at 4:25 a.m. and I promise you, if I met any girl right now I would fully close her. If I could demo, I would. This post is nothing like my normal posts.
Instead I am letting my subconscious take over to give you an idea of how I am in state. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted on October 26th, 2009 by acmereptile
Heya Guys,
I have mentioned this a bit but thought I’d give ya’ll a bit of a breakdown. I haven’t been posting much over the last few weeks as I’m currently in the U.S of A!
Woo hoo!
I was invited to come out here and give a talk on some ideas I have about game at the world PUA Summit. Plus, with my girl being in Dallas I thought I’d kill two birds with one stone. They held the first PUA awards and our forum got the award for the largest community in the world!
How awesome is that? With all the discussions and arguments, we are the most active and largest in the world!
I accepted the award on behalf of the forum along with another award for myself as the number 1 PUA in the UK, which I don’t know if I agree with so I made them add biggest AFC.
I’m bringing the trophy home with me when I come back. The awards were televised and had a few members of Hollywood press present, although it was still a very small affair considering. Read the rest of this entry »
Posted on October 20th, 2009 by acmereptile
When speaking to anyone new one of the key facts to consider is whether you are going to add value to them or take value from them. People are subconsciously aware of many factors relating to their interactions with others. If a homeless person were to initiate a conversation with you, you may instantly recoil from it without giving them time to speak. This is because you have a fear that they are likely to take value from you, either by asking for money or purely by association. If that homeless person were to suddenly begin the conversation by explaining that they were actually a secret spy in disguise, you would be much more likely to give them the time of day. Read the rest of this entry »