Diary of a Pick Up Artist

Adding Value to build Comfort: August 26, 2007

When speaking to anyone new one of the key facts to consider is whether you are going to add value to them or take value from them. People are subconsciously aware of many factors relating to their interactions with others. If a homeless person were to initiate a conversation with you, you may instantly recoil from it without giving them time to speak. This is because you have a fear that they are likely to take value from you, either by asking for money or purely by association. If that homeless person were to suddenly begin the conversation by explaining that they were actually a secret spy in disguise, you would be much more likely to give them the time of day.

An approach to approach anxiety: October 10, 2007

Heya Guys, I wrote this up too late to use on anything I've been working on and wasn't sure what to do with it. I just found it on my computer and thought I'd post it up. Are you afraid of approaching someone you like through a fear of rejection? Do you get that horrible feeling in your stomach and begin to formulate a hundred reasons why they wouldn't want to talk to you?